Dispelling the top 4 myths about eating disorders
Did you know that over 1 million Canadians struggle with eating disorders? This is almost the entire population of Saskatchewan.
Eating Disorder Awareness Week is February 1-7 and this year the theme “Eating Disorders Can’t Afford to Wait.”
Our virtual and Calgary Nutritionist practice and Eating Disorder Dietitian team here at Health Stand Nutrition Consulting supports many individuals and families with eating disorders. Our role as Eating Disorder Dietitians is to provide compassion, education, leadership and collaboration for the clients we serve.
Recovery from anorexia, bulimia, ARFID (avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder), binge eating disorder and other eating disorders isn’t easy but with the right support in place, recovery is absolutely possible.
Each day the Eating Disorder Dietitians in our practice work hard to meet our clients where they are at and be a trusted resource to dispel myths and develop a healthier relationship with food and your body.
Eating Disorders are not a choice. They affect all genders, ages, racial and ethnic identities, sexual orientations and socio-economic backgrounds.
Here are four important facts we want to share to help increase awareness:
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Myth: It is mainly a food issue
Fact: It is mainly a psychological issue
It is not uncommon to receive an inquiry from a concerned family member about someone who has lost a significant amount of weight, is obsessively counting calories or is bingeing uncontrollably on a wide range of foods. They are seeking help from a nutrition expert so we can “teach them what to eat” or “get eating under control.”
Eating disorders occur as a result of a complex combination of factors including emotional, behavioral, interpersonal and genetic factors. While working with a dietitian is important to help understand the science of nutrition and dispel misconceptions about what, when and how much to eat, the heart of the issue is why food started becoming an issue in the first place.
Eating disorder behaviors occur when an underlying emotional struggle or life challenge is bigger than a person’s ability to cope. This is why changing behaviors can be difficult and take time. An eating disorder serves the purpose of addressing a need for control, numbing painful emotions or enhancing self-esteem. Seeking the help of a trained psychologist that specializes in eating disorders is absolutely critical. Try out several therapists and find someone you trust and connect with.
Myth: Eating disorders don’t happen to guys
Fact: Eating disorders can happen to anyone
The National Eating Disorder Information Centre suggests that while females are more likely to develop an eating disorder, rates in males are increasing. Some research suggests one in four eating disorders occur in males. Other research suggests that binge eating occurs equally in both males and females.
Seeking help for an eating disorder can be hard for anyone but are especially difficult for males who can experience extra shame, feelings of isolation and be provided with limited gender specific support. As a concerned friend or family member, focus on your concern for overall wellbeing (not their food, exercise or weight). Signs of an eating disorder include obsessive exercise regimes, strict eating plans or avoidance of certain foods. Other signs include perfectionistic and self-critical attitudes towards nutrition and weight, supplement use in an attempt to add bulk or decrease weight, as well as comments about feeling fat or scrawny regardless of body size.
Myth: You have to be skinny to have an eating disorder
Fact: Eating disorders come in all different body sizes
Just like you can’t “work harder” to try and decrease your shoe size, our body size is similar in that at some point you can’t eat any less or exercise anymore and be smaller. You cannot determine your body weight by looking at a chart (after all we are not robots). Your best weight should be determined individually by the notion of eating reasonably healthy (not obsessively dieting), being moderately active (not excessively exercising) and thirdly having enough fun and flexibility to live a balanced life.
Myth: I used to have an eating disorder but it went away on its own
Fact: Eating disorders do not go away and sustain into adulthood if untreated
“My mom never eats the same foods we do”
“My dad only eats health food and exercises like crazy every day”
“My mom wears smaller jeans than I do”
“My sister had an eating disorder but I think it went away on its own”
These are a few of the statements I have heard from clients struggling with an eating disorder that indicated some of the challenges around food, exercise, weight, and emotions were learned at home. Children learn what they live. Actions speak louder than our words. Stuffed and starved emotions reflect back in unhealthy coping and limit our ability and our family’s ability to live our best life.
It is never too late and you are never too old to seek help for disordered eating or problems with depression, anxiety and emotional health in general. Be honest and be brave. You can live a better and more flexible life than you are right now.