Many people feel defeated or frustrated by their attempts to lose weight. Although weight loss seems simple, it is actually quite complicated. Understanding all the factors that influence why you weigh what you weigh can help.
When it comes to weight loss, one size does not fit all. Your best strategy is to work out a personal best weight you can live with for life.
Why do I weigh what I do?
The diet industry would have you believe you will lose weight if you just eat less or shift your diet. The fitness industry continues to perpetuate the myth that you only need to exercise. In reality, changing your diet or exercising more may or may not result in weight loss. Although your weight reflects your nutrition and exercise habits, it is not as simple as ‘calories in versus calories out.’
Your weight reflects many complex factors (see sidebar) that are above and beyond your food and activity habits. Understand that while we can change some factors, we must learn to live with other stubborn, unchangeable ones. Work at the factors you can control, like nutrition, exercise, stress and sleep. Then, remind yourself that like everybody else, you have a unique weight that your body will steer toward.
What influences weight?
Just as we have different shoe sizes, we have different body sizes too. Many factors influence your weight:
- personal genetics
- family history
- age and gender
- medical concerns and medications
- amount of exercise
- stress and sleep levels
- nutrition and calories consumed
- dieting, fasting and starvation
- fluid intake and hydration status
- sodium and carbohydrate-rich food intake (as these can make your body store water)
- and body composition (bone, muscle and fat mass).
How much ‘should’ I weigh?
Perhaps you have been told to use the BMI (body mass index) to assess your weight. This chart correlates height and weight into a health range. While the BMI does give a broad starting place, you are an individual. A chart cannot determine your health or how much you should weigh. Charts like these oversimplify the range of factors contributing to your weight. They cannot reflect what we have learned about the science of weight management.
More and more health educators and researchers, including the Canadian Obesity Network, are moving towards individualizing target weight goals.
What is a personal best weight?
Identifying a personal ‘best weight’ gives you a realistic target. You are likely never going to win an Olympic gold medal or a Nobel Prize. However, that does not mean you should stop shooting for your personal best.
“Your best weight is the weight you can achieve while living fully. Living fully is about living healthfully AND soulfully.”
Your best weight is a personal best. It is not based on a graph, chart, app or number provided by a so-called ‘expert.’ You are your own best expert.
As you look at nutrition, activity level and other lifestyle considerations, keep a few points in mind. You are most likely to be at your best weight when you:
- get enough sleep
- manage stress and emotions in healthy ways
- eat healthfully and mindfully, without striving for perfection
- exercise in a non-punishing or extreme way
- live soulfully, with enough fun and flexibility to feel that life is social and fulfilling
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